If a person is interested in the knowledge and concept and not the end product that is much different than someone who concentrates on the end product. ) Will the man always think or wonder if she is after money? I only pray it will happen to me someday, but after 13 years I am far past hopes and dreams.It sounds like you are concentrating too much on the end product to be successful in this type of relationship. Life for me is a crashing reality & I live quietly for when my last little baby bird flys from the nest & I am finished with school (only 10 more classes : O).But an educated "poor" woman with a little ambition is more likely to be a "good catch" than the silver-spoon type of wealthy woman IMHO.Now a wealthy woman that made her own way can be just as good since they will likely still appreciate the same ethos that are often shared among those with money.If truly have a lot to offer someone, then their wealth will look like pennies in a jar compared to it.Suggestions of a pre-nup from the poorer side are also helpful if things should get that far.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
It has more to do with the philosophies on money and your individual concepts of money than how much or little you have at the moment.When a man does this (and we do it more frequently, as I'm sure many of the women here can atest) he is a scumbag, homewrecker etc.A woman is seen as being empowered and filling her needs.My hard reality is people are shrewd & no rich man has ever wanted the poor black irish girl.So I continue saving my pennies and making my small investments in time & occasionally fish for my future Anyways it crushed my soul last year when my baby said to me in her 11 year old voice, "I will never have a father will I" (She has never met her real father & my second husband didn't like her after his child was born) I know these words were due mostly to my last feeble attempt at love that had to be let go for self preservation when the expectations rose to the only way we would be together would be for me to quit school, sell my house and follow him around in the poor housing areas of the Wyoming Oil Fields.
Do you guys think there is any chance at all of this kind of relationship working out? In fact, probably an easier chance of working out than its gender-reversed alternative. People are usually a lot more transparent than they think they are. Yes, if she is actually not out for it, she will not have to try, because it will be obvious from her behaviour. Again, for a hundred reasons, it is easier than the gender-reversed alternative.